jUST sHARED

I learned SO much. And I just have to share it with everyone.
Time is Life. How we make use of our life will depend on the length of lifetime on earth that God gives to each of us (ie. we can’t choose to live life longer than what’s been given to us).

When we’ve been given an extra year, what do we do with our life? What do we do with the extra time given?

We ourselves decide on how we live our lives and every single thing that we do in life will one day be judged by God. We will be held accountable and responsible for the way we live our own life.
Time is a Record. What we do during our lifetime is recorded and people DO get to know about our life, even if we no longer live.

Time is an Opportunity. We often don’t realise the importance of opportunity and time. We often put in more time and effort for something that’s of less importance and neglect things / aspects in life that actually have greater value.

Sometimes we hear people say, ‘Ah … if only I learned about it a few years ago’. Or, ‘How I wish I did it earlier…’

We often waste our time and opportunity presented to us, only to realise the importance of it later, when it’s already too late.

In order to see how dirty our face is (so that we can clean it), we need a reflective object, eg. a mirror. And this is the only way to see ourselves. Someone can tell us how dirty our face is, but we cannot see our own face unless we see our reflection in the mirror.

And it’s the same with our life. We need an ‘object’ so that we can ’self-reflect’ and ‘clean up’.

God’s Word in the Bible is like a mirror. It lets us see our imperfections, our faults, our sins, and all aspects in our life that need changing and improving. It is only after we know more about ourselves that we know what to clean up and change.

5 C's for healthy marriage

5 C’s are important to have a healthy marriage.

1. Combine. When a man and woman get married, the “two become one flesh.” There is something magical, mystical and beyond our comprehension when a couple enters the marital covenant.  My blog, Are You and Your Spouse on the Same Team?, may be of some help as you understand how to practically work together in all areas of life.

2. Commit. A husband and wife must commit to: make their marriage a top priority; to be married for life.

3. Confess. You’re never more right than when you admit you’re wrong.  If you’ve wronged your spouse, be quick to confess it and seek forgiveness. Here’s how to make A True Apology and how to Give Forgiveness as well.

4. Change. Confessing you’re wrong about something and asking for forgiveness isn’t enough.  If you wrong your spouse over and over again relating to the same thing, your spouse may question your sincerity and motives.  Change must accompany confession.  Does that mean you’ll never do the same thing again?  No. It just means that you are strongly striving to turn in a new direction.

5. Choose.  Love is a decision.  So choose to love your spouse no matter what. Love your unlovable spouse. Love is unconditional.

SOLAT SUNAT DHUHA

SOLAT SUNAT DHUHA

1) Bilangan rakaat : 2 hingga 12 rakaat (2 rakaat 1 salam)

2) Waktu : Pagi anggaran 8.00 pagi hingga 11.00 pagi

Niatnya:

"Sahaja aku sembahyang sunat Dhuha 2 rakaat kerana Allah Ta'ala"

Baca ketika sujud yang terakhir - 3 kali

Baca doa ini selesai solat

Maksudnya:

Ya Allah, sesungguhnya waktu Dhuha itu waktu DhuhaMu, kecantikanny adalah kecantikanMu,
keindahan itu keindahanMu, kekuatan itu kekuatanMu,
kekuasaan itu kekuasaanMu dan perlindungan itu perlindunganMu.
Ya Allah, jika rezekiku masih di langit, turunkanlah, dan jika di dalam bumi, keluarkanlah,
jika sukar, permudahkanlah, jika haram, sucikanlah dan jika jauh, dekatkanlah.
Berkat waktu dhuha, kecantikan. keindahan, kekuatan, kekuasaanMu,
limpahkan kepadaku segala yang Engkau telah limpahkan kepada hamba-hambaMu yang soleh.

ps : entry ni untuk diri sendiri yang selalu sengaja menyasar kan diri kepada keburukan